How should youth handle a contradictory message they receive?

Seeking clarification is the most constructive approach when a youth receives a contradictory message. This response fosters open communication and allows the individual to understand the intent and context behind the conflicting messages. By seeking clarification, the youth can engage in a conversation that may reveal important insights, reduce confusion, and provide an opportunity for the sender of the message to explain their perspective more clearly.

This approach also encourages problem-solving and develops critical thinking skills, enabling youth to navigate complex situations more effectively. Engaging in dialogue also helps build trust and rapport with others, which is essential in any supportive environment, particularly in a residential care setting.

Ignoring the contradictory message can lead to misunderstandings and unresolved feelings, while dismissing communication entirely undermines the importance of dialogue. Assuming the message is false could foster mistrust and hinder relationships without allowing for the possibility of finding common ground or understanding different viewpoints.